4 Years of Experience

Your Wellbeing
Matters

I am committed to fostering a warm, empathetic, and non-judgemental environment where men feel safe to explore their emotional wellbeing, while also supporting women in gaining a deeper understanding of the mental wellbeing of men in their lives. Let's walk this journey together.

213+ Clients Helped
98% Satisfaction Rate
4yrs Experience
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Trusted Care Safe & Confidential

Services I Offer

Men's Mental Health Counselling in South Africa. Common issues I support men with:

Confidence & Self-Worth

Build healthier self-esteem, overcome self-doubt, and develop confidence in your abilities and decisions.

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Anxiety & Stress

Learn practical strategies to manage anxiety, reduce stress, and regain a greater sense of calm and balance.

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Burnout

Recover from emotional and mental exhaustion by restoring balance, resilience, and sustainable coping habits.

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Relationship Difficulties

Navigate conflict, strengthen communication, and build healthier relationships with partners, family, and friends.

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Identity & Purpose

Explore your values, strengths, and direction to create a more meaningful and fulfilling life.

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Loneliness

Work through feelings of isolation while building meaningful connections and a stronger support network.

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Trauma Debriefing

Process difficult experiences in a safe environment and reduce the lasting impact of trauma on daily life.

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Communication

Develop healthier communication skills to express yourself clearly, confidently, and respectfully.

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Emotional Regulation

Learn to understand, manage, and respond to difficult emotions in healthier and more constructive ways.

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Anger Management

Identify anger triggers, improve emotional control, and develop practical strategies for everyday challenges.

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Individual Counselling

Personalised one-on-one counselling focused on your unique challenges, goals, and personal growth.

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Success Case Studies

Couple counselling success Couples Support

Understanding Beyond the Surface

A woman gained a deeper understanding of her partner's mental wellbeing, learned healthier ways to respond during difficult moments, and together they developed stronger communication that brought greater connection and trust to their relationship.

Man experiencing emotional growth Emotional Regulation

Responding Instead of Reacting

A client who struggled with frustration and emotional outbursts learned practical regulation techniques, allowing him to communicate calmly, strengthen his relationships, and approach life's challenges with greater confidence.

Healing journey Trauma Recovery

Healing Beyond the Event

A client found a safe and supportive space to process a traumatic experience, gradually rebuilding resilience, restoring emotional wellbeing, and regaining a sense of safety and hope.

Relationship counselling success Relationships

Rebuilding Healthy Communication

A man experiencing ongoing conflict in his personal relationships developed healthier communication skills, learned to express his emotions more effectively, and built stronger, more respectful connections with those closest to him.

Shaminah Shaai, Specialist Wellness Counsellor
ASCHP Listed Specialist Wellness Counsellor

Meet Your Counsellor

Hi, my name is Shaminah Shaai, Specialist Wellness Counsellor and founder of Sanare Counselling. I am registered with the Association for Supportive Counsellors and Holistic Practitioners (ASCHP).

Through my work as a counsellor, I developed a particular interest in men's mental health and the psychosocial factors that influence men's behaviour. My aim is to create a safe, confidential space where men feel understood, supported, and empowered to navigate life's challenges. I also work with partners and families, helping them better understand the emotional experiences and behaviours of the men they care about, fostering healthier relationships and communication.

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Highly Qualified BA (UP), BA Hons Psych (UL), MHSc Psych Candidate (NWU)
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Multilingual Support English, Sepedi, Xitsonga, Setswana, IsiZulu & Tshivenda
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Holistic Approach Specialising in men's mental health, stress, burnout, anxiety, anger management, emotional regulation, trauma, self-worth, relationships and identity.

I believe meaningful healing begins when people feel heard without judgement. My holistic approach considers the emotional, psychological and social factors affecting your wellbeing, while providing practical tools to help you move forward with confidence.

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Words from Clients

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"For the first time, I felt like I could speak openly without being judged. Every session gave me practical tools to manage stress, understand my emotions and regain confidence in myself."

Kagiso
Kagiso M. Confidence & Self-Worth
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"I always believed I had to handle everything alone. Counselling showed me that asking for support isn't weakness. Today I feel more confident, present and emotionally healthy."

Mpho
Mpho T. Men's Mental Health
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"I used to react with anger whenever I felt overwhelmed. I've learned how to regulate my emotions, communicate calmly and become a better husband and father."

Sizwe
Sizwe N. Anger Management
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"Burnout had become my normal. Through counselling I learned to recognise my limits, set healthier boundaries and finally make my wellbeing a priority."

Lindani
Lindani D. Burnout Recovery
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"I didn't realise how much anxiety was affecting my work and relationships. The practical techniques I learned have helped me stay calm, focused and in control."

Themba
Themba R. Anxiety & Stress
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"Processing past experiences wasn't easy, but I finally found a space where I felt understood. I now have healthier ways of coping and a renewed sense of hope."

Thabo
Thabo S. Trauma Recovery
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"Counselling helped me understand my husband's mental wellbeing in ways I never had before. We communicate with more patience, empathy and understanding, and our relationship is stronger because of it."

Nomsa
Nomsa P. Couples Support
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"Before counselling, I struggled to express how I was feeling. Today I'm more confident in communicating my emotions and my relationships with my family and colleagues have improved tremendously."

Sipho
Sipho L. Emotional Regulation

Counselling Rates

Professional, multilingual support tailored to your schedule. Sessions are held in a safe, confidential and non-judgmental environment.

Individual
R400/session
  • 60-minute private session
  • ✓ Men's mental health support
  • ✓ Stress, burnout, anxiety & trauma
  • ✓ Anger management & emotional regulation
  • ✓ Multilingual support (English, Sepedi, Xitsonga, Setswana, IsiZulu & Tshivenda)
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Presentations & Seminars
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  • ✓ Workplace wellness presentations
  • ✓ Men's mental health awareness talks
  • ✓ Community & organisational seminars
  • ✓ Custom topics tailored to your audience
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Our Holistic Approach

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Initial Connection

Taking the first step is an act of self-care. We begin with a compassionate conversation to understand your goals and current wellness state.

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Customized Path

We align on a support plan—whether individual, couple, or teen-focused—tailored to your unique life challenges and cultural context.

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Guided Growth

Through holistic sessions, we work to restore balance, build resilience, and strengthen your connection to yourself and others.

Start Your Healing Journey

Taking the first step is often the bravest part. Reach out via WhatsApp, call, or email to secure your online session.

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Call / WhatsApp +27 70 414 4113
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ASCHP Reg No 9946
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