I am committed to fostering a warm, empathetic, and non-judgemental environment where men feel safe to explore their emotional wellbeing, while also supporting women in gaining a deeper understanding of the mental wellbeing of men in their lives. Let's walk this journey together.
Men's Mental Health Counselling in South Africa. Common issues I support men with:
Build healthier self-esteem, overcome self-doubt, and develop confidence in your abilities and decisions.
Book Session →Learn practical strategies to manage anxiety, reduce stress, and regain a greater sense of calm and balance.
Book Session →Recover from emotional and mental exhaustion by restoring balance, resilience, and sustainable coping habits.
Book Session →Navigate conflict, strengthen communication, and build healthier relationships with partners, family, and friends.
Book Session →Explore your values, strengths, and direction to create a more meaningful and fulfilling life.
Book Session →Work through feelings of isolation while building meaningful connections and a stronger support network.
Book Session →Process difficult experiences in a safe environment and reduce the lasting impact of trauma on daily life.
Book Session →Develop healthier communication skills to express yourself clearly, confidently, and respectfully.
Book Session →Learn to understand, manage, and respond to difficult emotions in healthier and more constructive ways.
Book Session →Identify anger triggers, improve emotional control, and develop practical strategies for everyday challenges.
Book Session →Personalised one-on-one counselling focused on your unique challenges, goals, and personal growth.
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Couples Support
A woman gained a deeper understanding of her partner's mental wellbeing, learned healthier ways to respond during difficult moments, and together they developed stronger communication that brought greater connection and trust to their relationship.
Emotional Regulation
A client who struggled with frustration and emotional outbursts learned practical regulation techniques, allowing him to communicate calmly, strengthen his relationships, and approach life's challenges with greater confidence.
Trauma Recovery
A client found a safe and supportive space to process a traumatic experience, gradually rebuilding resilience, restoring emotional wellbeing, and regaining a sense of safety and hope.
Relationships
A man experiencing ongoing conflict in his personal relationships developed healthier communication skills, learned to express his emotions more effectively, and built stronger, more respectful connections with those closest to him.
Hi, my name is Shaminah Shaai, Specialist Wellness Counsellor and founder of Sanare Counselling. I am registered with the Association for Supportive Counsellors and Holistic Practitioners (ASCHP).
Through my work as a counsellor, I developed a particular interest in men's mental health and the psychosocial factors that influence men's behaviour. My aim is to create a safe, confidential space where men feel understood, supported, and empowered to navigate life's challenges. I also work with partners and families, helping them better understand the emotional experiences and behaviours of the men they care about, fostering healthier relationships and communication.
I believe meaningful healing begins when people feel heard without judgement. My holistic approach considers the emotional, psychological and social factors affecting your wellbeing, while providing practical tools to help you move forward with confidence.
Start Your Journey"For the first time, I felt like I could speak openly without being judged. Every session gave me practical tools to manage stress, understand my emotions and regain confidence in myself."
"I always believed I had to handle everything alone. Counselling showed me that asking for support isn't weakness. Today I feel more confident, present and emotionally healthy."
"I used to react with anger whenever I felt overwhelmed. I've learned how to regulate my emotions, communicate calmly and become a better husband and father."
"Burnout had become my normal. Through counselling I learned to recognise my limits, set healthier boundaries and finally make my wellbeing a priority."
"I didn't realise how much anxiety was affecting my work and relationships. The practical techniques I learned have helped me stay calm, focused and in control."
"Processing past experiences wasn't easy, but I finally found a space where I felt understood. I now have healthier ways of coping and a renewed sense of hope."
"Counselling helped me understand my husband's mental wellbeing in ways I never had before. We communicate with more patience, empathy and understanding, and our relationship is stronger because of it."
"Before counselling, I struggled to express how I was feeling. Today I'm more confident in communicating my emotions and my relationships with my family and colleagues have improved tremendously."
Professional, multilingual support tailored to your schedule. Sessions are held in a safe, confidential and non-judgmental environment.
Taking the first step is an act of self-care. We begin with a compassionate conversation to understand your goals and current wellness state.
We align on a support plan—whether individual, couple, or teen-focused—tailored to your unique life challenges and cultural context.
Through holistic sessions, we work to restore balance, build resilience, and strengthen your connection to yourself and others.
Taking the first step is often the bravest part. Reach out via WhatsApp, call, or email to secure your online session.